11th November 2009
Seven years ago I had a brand new 14-week-old baby and I had to go back to work. I'd left my husband, bought a flat on my own and was striking out to support my little family as best I knew how. I was good at it. I had a great job, a good routine ... then...
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04th November 2009
Single Parent Holidays, as a phrase, is a bit of an oxymoron (you know, like 'deafening silence' or ' bitter sweet'). We can all be full of expectations of relaxing, reading maybe a bit of nail painting. But in reality, taking children on planes, trains,...
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03rd November 2009
How often do you decide that you want something different for your life? Better relationships with your children, ex-partner or friends. Better fitness, more money, a bigger house, a more flexible job, a 'cooler' wardrobe, a new relationship, or simply mo...
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27th October 2009
Quality Time - When Your Kids Are With Your Ex!
There's now doubt about it, when I first became a single parent, which was from day 1 ( I left my marriage when I was 3 months pregnant), I wanted so much to separate my ‘new life with my daughter (who...
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20th October 2009
I read books on metaphysics (the philosophy of ‘being') on a regular basis. There's a huge raising up of global consciousness around the fact that our limitations rarely come from our government, our society, our family or our friends. Our limitations c...
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15th October 2009
There's now doubt about it, when I first became a single parent, which was from day 1 ( I left my marriage when I was 3 months pregnant), I wanted so much to separate my ‘new life' with my daughter (who I adored from the first second I saw her) from my ...
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16th September 2009
The thing about single parents and work is that we've got to be way more innovative in our thinking, our planning and our dedication to delivering value in our workplaces. When there are 2 parents contributing to finances and to homemaking there's often ...
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14th September 2009
Setting Goals - And Sticking With Them
How often do you decide that you want something different for your life? Better relationships with your children, ex-partner or friends. Better fitness, more money, a bigger house, a more flexible job, a ‘cool...
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10th September 2009
I read books on metaphysics (the philosophy of ‘being') on a regular basis. There's a huge raising up of global consciousness around the fact that our limitations rarely come from our government, our society, our family or our friends. Our limitations c...
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07th September 2009
We've all had feelings of guilt about the fact that we're at work when our children are being looked after by other adults. At the outset of this phase for me (7 years ago), I found it hard to get my head around. But I've come to understand that there a...
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03rd September 2009
The thing about single parents and work is that we've got to be way more innovative in our thinking and our dedication to delivering value to our workplaces. Those of the adult workforce who have 2 parents contributing to finances and to homemaking have ...
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20th August 2009
We've all had feelings of guilt about the fact that we're at work when our children are being looked after by other adults. At the outset of this phase for me (5 years ago), I found it hard to get my head around. But I've come to understand that there a...
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18th August 2009
1. Commit To Your Schedule
I remember going back to work after maternity leave (of about 14 weeks!) and how I had discussed with my boss before going back that I'd have to leave by 5pm each day, no exceptions. Anyway on day 3 of me being back my boss p...
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15th August 2009
One of my biggest challenges when I started to build a life as a single parent was to not compare myself with 2-parent families. They appeared to do things smoothly, effortlessly and happily. I struggled with everything: parenting skills, work, conflict...
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04th August 2009
Motivation in a Minute - Simple Skills to Self-Motivate and Mood-Regulate
It dawned on me that there are some things worth mentioning around ‘motivation' - how to access it and how to maintain it. Here are my top 5 tips:
1. Listen to uplifting m...
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